Hi Jim! I definitely needed to read this right now. I am so glad I found your article. I need to reconcile with someone I love and have been having trouble with it because of what I did to him. I am talking about my husband. I hurt him very badly because of what I did. I will be writing about it and sharing it as soon as possible. I feel so bad about what I did and hate myself for doing what I did to him. Thank you for writing this!